| | Ray Joseph Hutchinson:A Hero Remembered's Journals Recent Comments Here we will try to share thoughts, memories and happenings on Ray Joseph Hutchinson-our hero. This was our fourth, and possibly final trip to Ft. Campbell. The first trip was in early March, '03, to say good bye to Ray Joseph as he prepared to deploy to the camps in Kuwait, from which he would cross over into a war for the liberation of Iraq.
It was in front of the barracks, in a parking lot, under a sunny morning sky that I held him in my arms for the very last time on this earth, March, '03.
From that moment on, nothing has ever been the same as it was before. I had to relinquish Ray Joseph to the care of Almighty God. I had to urge Ray Joseph to turn his eyes upon Jesus---which he did so beautifully and so completely.
Our second trip was also in March, only it was one year later in '04. And very near to the place I had held Ray Joseph in my arms, was where the President held me in his arms---- to thank me for Ray Joseph's sacrifice for his country.
Two more trips to Ft. Campbell, Kentucky, have since taken place; May, '04, and this final trip in May '05. This trip was also one that involved a good bye. But this time is was a good bye to over ten thousand young men who are preparing to return to Iraq in three months' time. In a parade on post, during this Week of the Eagles, we sat in a podium as guests of honor and watched them all march by; company after company, by the thousands. They are so young, and they marched with such unity--- with their faces turned right, toward their general and toward us. My heart could see them marching into their rendezvous with destiny. And I felt as if I could not be still enough inside to honor them all. It was another sunny morning, and another farewell. And, of course, it felt like Ray Joseph was somewhere close by, telling me not to be afraid.
On this trip we were able to meet, for the first time, several members of Ray Joseph's platoon who had been on leave during our last two visits. I can not write down all that they shared with me about Ray Joseph because I cry so easily these days. I won't be able to see the keys as I type this. Most of what they said was in their eyes. They love Ray Joseph. They will always love Ray Joseph.
One soldier told me that he and Ray Joseph talked about the Lord Jesus Christ many times during those hours of quiet conversations between soldiers and brothers, deep in the desert of Iraq---so far away. He was strengthened by Ray Joseph's Faith. What could be better to hear about one's son?
Another soldier told me that he had never seen Ray Joseph down or depressed; that he was always ready to lift someone up; that Ray was generous with his smile and his encouragement; that Ray Joseph enjoyed each one of his days, even if he had to search for something that might be funny about how terrible things could get with death all around them.
These men who loved him are still reeling from the shock of losing their brother, and their eyes are full of the loss of Ray Joseph. They look at me and want to give something of Ray Joseph back to me. Their hugs are generous and always ready for Ray Joseph's mother. How grateful I am.
I thank them, and tell them what Heroes they are. I tell them that they represent the best that has been born in their own ancestry. I tell them that their courage will strengthen those yet to come who will be born into their own families. I tell them I love them, because I do. I love them for Ray Joseph, because he would want me to do so. It is easy to hold them in my heart.
They go back to that place on the other side of the earth very soon. Pray for them all. I know you will. When you see a soldier, thank him.
With an aching heart, I know that my gratitude to the Lord for the privilege of being Ray Joseph's mother will always spill from my core. I am grateful and ever mindful that I will see Jesus at the perfect moment; and that standing there with Him will be Ray Joseph. Of that, I am sure.
Deborah and Michael: thank you for sharing your notes with me this Memorial Day weekend. This evening we celebrated Memorial Day to honor those that have fallen in battle. I worked with my staff to put together what we thought were nice remarks. Just before I departed for the ceremony, I received your note Deborah.and armed with your note and Michael's two earlier notes to me, I decided not to use the speech that I had prepared. Instead I spoke of your visit to Ft. Campbell. Michael, I discussed your visit to Ft. Campbell, and your comment that you never thought that you would think of the Army as family, but now you do. Deborah, I read your note below to those in attendance. I had to read it three times, wiping away tears, before I could leave the office and address the military and civilian members of our team. I cannot tell you the number of folks that came up to me and asked that I pass on their best to you and your family. They were deeply touched that a family could experience such a loss and still support the Army and the cause for which we are engaged each day. You, like Ray Joseph, are the real heroes of this great cause.few understand or will ever know the pain and grief of the families of the fallen. The members of my team were moved by the story of Ray Joseph and his wonderful parents. You are special people and our Nation is indeed fortunate that young men like Ray Joseph choose to serve to protect the freedoms that we enjoy. As a memorial commemorative inscription reads in an American military cemetery about our fallen heroes."Time will not dim the glory of their deeds." We are indeed a family and the Army will always be with you and Ray Joseph, and we will never forget his service and sacrifice.
God bless,
Tom
Thomas P. Bostick
BG, U.S. Army
CG, Gulf Division
| | |